What’s Considered Self-Defense For Survival?
When times get tough for people, people tend to get a little desperate and I have questioned myself on what’s considered self-defense for survival?
It just so happens that there are many ways to defend or not defend yourself when such a situation arises. There are also laws to consider some specifically to where you live that you should know about so you do not find yourself in jail after the fact.
The use of reasonable force to protect oneself or members of the family from bodily harm from the attack of an aggressor, if the defender has reason to believe he/she/they is/are in danger.
Perhaps you were faced with a startling question for which you didn’t have a response.
Such as what’s considered self-defense in this situation?
Maybe you were insulted or berated for an unknown reason and caught in the wrath of another person’s anger.
Or worse yet, you may have been a victim of a mugging or armed attack, wherein your body froze and you failed to react.
If you’ve ever taken a biology class or perused a self-help book, you’ve likely heard about the fight or flight response.
So…..have you ever felt like a deer….. in the headlights?
The idea is simple: Whenever we encounter dangerous situations, our brains will decide to either face the situation or flee from it, all the while bringing about intense emotional, psychological and physical changes.
This is controlled by the limbic system a complex set of brain structures that control our survival instincts such as eating, sex, and fear.
When Is It Ok To Fight
On the emotional side, we typically experience either intense fear or anger, sometimes both instantaneously.
Psychologically, our senses become heightened, allowing us to make faster (and arguably smarter) decisions, at least in regards to survival.
As blood flow is diverted to the more important parts of the body, physical changes are experienced through a rush of adrenaline, increased heart rate, and increased stamina and strength.
This subconscious response has played a role in keeping us safe since the time of our ancestors. Without these changes, they likely would have died, having failed to pass their genes onto us.
Granted, if things were really as simple as fight vs. flight, then we’d likely find ourselves physically and mentally damaged more often than not.
So which works best in a disaster survival scenario, fight or flight? Furthermore, does this response even apply to today’s society?
After all, times have changed significantly since our great-great-forefathers faced attacks from wild animals or rival tribes vying for the same land – at least life is no longer like that in most parts of the world.
Formerly, survival was largely determined upon one’s ability to either fight or distance themselves from a threatening situation.
However, we aren’t cavemen anymore, and the same tenants of survival no longer apply to the 21st century.
But how can such a natural instinct that’s worked for millennia just stop working?
Civilization and technology have experienced astounding growth and advancements over time.
Today’s threats are much different than those of the past. They are often unforeseeable, uncontrollable and beyond our ability to comprehend. This applies equally to natural disasters as it does to the effects of modern warfare and global terrorism.
To that tune, limiting our response to either fight or flight can end up being counterproductive to our survival.
How Do You Not Fight Someone?
There is, an alternative response to fight or flight. It’s called the freeze response.
In a disaster situation, one of your main goals is to go about unnoticed. Think about this pretty simple (though unlikely) scenario once faced by our ancestors.
You’re in the woods when, all of a sudden, you encounter a wild bear. Do you stay and fight? I think not.
Do you turn around and make a run for it? Probably not because the bear would likely chase you down and tear you to shreds.
The only other option is to freeze. Most people fail to realize this as an alternative to fight and flight.
It’s in our instincts just as it is in those of wild animals. Many animals, like the deer in headlights, simply freeze when they sense danger.
Some take it a step further and play dead, curling up into a ball or plopping themselves on the ground.
Don’t think there is any shame or weakness in employing this response.
Modern society has seen an incredibly unfortunate rise in unexpected violence in the form of terror attacks and school shootings. Many survivors of these situations used the freeze response to stay alive in the midst of chaos and violence.
Regardless, human evolution takes a while to progress, and the fight or flight response isn’t going anywhere anytime soon. It’s ingrained in our genes and still very much applies to many situations, though those situations may be dwindling in frequency.
So in a post-disaster world, which response works the best: fight, flight or freeze?
There is no definitive answer.
If you’re a prepper, you may or may not have a particular situation for which you are preparing. With so much uncertainty as to what exactly will happen when SHTF, who’s to say how your brain will react in a dangerous situation?
Fight, flight and freeze may all be appropriate responses depending on the circumstance.
Your best bet remains to stay constantly vigilant and prepared to face a variety of potentially dangerous situations.
When the time comes, your instincts will do the deciding for you as to how to react.
Just remember, if you do get into a situation where fighting is unavoidable, it’s best to have an idea of how to defend yourself.
How To Street Fight Without Fear
Hopefully, you’ve never had to take part in one, but you’ve likely witnessed a drunken brawl outside a bar between two males of a special breed that, when inebriated, decide to start fights with random people.
It happens every weekend in every city and town.
Usually, these types of fights end up outside and use aptly named street fighting techniques.
The drunker the fighters they get, the less likely they are to deliver and land effective blows against their opponent.
But street fighting is its own breed of martial art, often a blend of several established fighting styles from around the world.
Knowing how to apply certain street fighting techniques and ideas could not only save your life outside of your neighborhood bar but also in a post-disaster world.
Though we’ve mentioned in previous newsletters that fights should be avoided at all costs, getting out of harm’s way isn’t always an option.
No one likes to fight, and anyone that tells you they do is probably full of it. Even professional boxers and MMA fighters like to keep it in the ring, and most avoid street fights at all costs.
That’s because anything can happen at a street fight, especially when survival is on the line. If you’re up against an opponent in a post-disaster wasteland, you’re liable to use all the moves and tactics at your disposal to gain the upper hand.
Street fighting often gets dirty. Your opponent’s moves are unpredictable, and getting hit is painful and dangerous.
Fighting Tips And Techniques
There are several simple street fighting “rules” (keep in mind there aren’t really any rules) that you can apply in a fight that could be especially useful during a disaster situation.
Keep Your Distance
This is the single most important tenant of any self-defense situation, especially a street fight.
This is also an incredibly simple concept to grasp, instinctual even, seeing as most people tend to have pretty good situational awareness and can identify a suspicious person with potentially dangerous intentions.
Others can’t, but that’s easily remedied. If you’re approached by someone and can’t tell their intentions, simply put your arms out in front of you. If you can touch his hands (or body), you’re too close and should back away until you’re out of range.
This is a very smart and non-threatening move that will show your attacker that you don’t intend to fight. It won’t always stop an unruly opponent, but it is far less likely to provoke aggressive behavior and/or an attack.
Also, try staying on your opponents “outside,” or periphery, rather than directly in front of him. This way you can use your opponent’s own body as an obstacle against him.
Should you be faced with an attack, keeping distance between you and your opponent will give you more time to react and (possibly) flee.
Even just a few feet of space is enough space to see a hit coming and react with the appropriate block or countermove.
Establish Your Balance to Stay on Your Feet
Balance is another crucial component to nearly any form of martial art or self-defense.
Many fights are determined by crushing blows to the head while on the ground, so you must do your best to stay on your feet.
Proper balance means spreading your feet shoulder-width apart and bending your knees slightly, keeping a loose posture.
Keep this stance up during a fight, and do everything in your power to restore your balance should you be pushed, hit or knocked down.
Your ultimate goal is to stay off the ground, which can be incredibly dangerous to the untrained fighter.
If your opponent has a weapon or back-up of any kind, you’ll be even more vulnerable when stuck to the floor.
Keep your arms up and remain non-threatening as long as possible, but take up a fighting stance with your arms up to cover your face when an attack is unavoidable.
Know When (and How) to Run
You may find yourself outmatched or outnumbered, or you may just be an exceptionally nonconfrontational person and wish to avoid fights at all costs.
Either case, you should attempt to make your escape as quickly as possible before your opponent has a chance to close the distance and attack.
In a post-disaster world, there may not be many well-lit public areas with helpful bystanders to come to your aid.
You may just have to run as fast and far away as possible until you find safety or return to your shelter.
If you try to escape in the middle of a fight, try to hinder your opponent’s ability to continue his attack as much as possible.
Do this by creating obstacles as you run: knocking over a trashcan, going through the woods, running through traffic (if there is any).
The narrower the path, the less space your opponents have to pursue and attack. Use parked cars, stairwells, and hallways to your advantage; just make sure you have an exit.
Unfortunately, running isn’t always an option. You may take one look at your opponent and know that you won’t be able to outrun him – don’t even try.
In the event there is more than one attacker, there will be more legs to chase and catch up with you.
Ideally, though, you’ll be able to walk away from the fight before it happens or find a strategic time to make your getaway.
If you end up in a fight, make your escape as soon as you’ve incapacitated your target.
To apply the concepts above, just think about the way you face confrontations in your everyday life.
The degree of calmness and awareness at which you go about your daily routine will likely be reflected upon the way you face a street fight.
Don’t be the type of person that charges head-on into conflict with arms flailing. Instead, have a keen awareness of your surroundings and approach post-disaster scenarios with caution.
You may ask yourself why no real physical fighting techniques have been mentioned. Why?
If you end up in a street fight, you probably didn’t do everything in your power to avoid being there.
Violence should always be a last resort, even after all hell breaks loose and the ‘zombies’ are roaming the streets.
There are plenty of things that can go wrong in a fight, but avoiding one in the first place is always the right move.
However, if you do find yourself in a fight, then you’ll need to know how to defend yourself adequately and more importantly, efficiently.
Remember that no matter how well trained and equipped that you think you are, the person you are facing is definitely an unknown quantity.
Are Guns Effective For Self-defense
When it comes to self-defense, the consensus seems to show that firearms are the most trusted form of protection.
Can the ownership of a handgun be the answer to that question: what’s considered self-defense? Can the story end here?
I have mentioned before on this site that I personally do not believe in gun ownership for a defense situation.
The chances that you would be one step ahead of an aggressor with a gun are slim to none. And I do not think I need to tell you what sought of outcome that will be.
Sometimes running and avoiding is the better side of valor.
However, only with good training, you might be inclined to keep one in the house if you’re preparing for or anticipating a disaster scenario wherein your need to defend yourself will likely increase.
However, there may be times when you are forced to defend yourself and there is no weapon around. Worse yet, your weapon could be taken from you by your attacker and used against you.
Many fail to realize exactly how much time and distance (between you and your opponent) you will need to effectively draw, aim and shoot your gun at an oncoming attacker.
In many cases, attempting to draw your weapon is not advised.
You are the one who most likely will be caught by surprise.
You could be caught mid-draw as your attacker closes the gap and be incapacitated before you have the chance to fire a shot.
Furthermore, what happens when you venture outside your home or shelter to replenish your supplies, including ammunition? Unless you are capable of manufacturing your own ammo in-house (chances are you aren’t), you will be forced to revert back to empty-handed combat.
In which case, you need to have a backup weapon available that you can rely on for self-defense. Unfortunately, finding an alternate weapon is not always as easy as it seems.
Other Self-Defense Weapons
Many preppers agree that a knife is man’s best friend, even more so than a rifle or handgun, and they carry one on a daily basis for a variety of everyday chores and, if need be, self-defense.
However, watch yourself, some knives over a certain length are illegal in many areas, as are those with automatic opening systems otherwise known as a ‘switchblade’.
In many jurisdictions, electric Tasers and even pepper spray are illegal and unavailable for purchase by the average consumer.
So, are you just simply out of luck in these situations when it comes to self-defense in the absence of traditional and ‘not allowed’ weapons?
The answer is NO, but you may have to get creative and think of other ways to make your defense work.
You should understand that your mind may be the greatest weapon in a defensive situation so you’re only as limited as your own ideas and whatever you may have in the kids’ toybox or under your kitchen sink.
Keep in mind a universal rule of combat: You should and must avoid and/or defuse a confrontation before it has a chance to escalate. You must always consider what can be done to prevent yourself from becoming a victim.
And of course-you must win!
Consider training in some kind of legal street fighting techniques.
You can never go wrong by taking the proper time and energy to train yourself in the martial arts. There are several different techniques that are used and it doesn’t matter what variety you practice.
Regular self- defense training will equip you with the techniques, ability, and stamina(physical and mental) to take on an attacker, who in most cases won’t be well-versed in those types of fighting skills.
But your own fighting skills – however good or bad – are only part of what can be considered a layered defense. You must be able to identify and incorporate different options into your self-defense regimen in the event of an actual attack.
There are countless alternative items that can serve as a self-defense weapon in the event you must otherwise face an attacker unarmed. Again, consider the fact that you could find yourself in a fight with little or no time to react.
Non-Lethal Personal Defense Weapons
So in order to be prepared, you need to have (or find) something concealable and easily accessible to be used as a makeshift weapon to deter or incapacitate your foe.
If you can’t carry or don’t have access to a firearm or Taser, consider carrying a less lethal type of gun.
For example, flare guns are legal for purchase in most areas, are affordable, and can be discharged with potentially lethal force. Their phosphorus rounds (which are used for signaling for help at sea) can essentially light a person on fire if pointed at the body.
Be careful, though, these things do not usually operate in a straight line. You may have to get up front and a little too personal for these to be effective. And just like a traditional firearm, it may take some practice to effectively aim and hit a human target with a flare.
Also, keep in mind the firing cartridges usually have a limited shelf life and can only carry a charge for a certain length of time (typically upwards of 3 years).
Another “gun” that you could use is a squirt gun. These children’s toys are filled with water and used for harmless fun in mock battles. But have you ever considered the effect of replacing the water with bleach, ammonia or another toxic chemical (acidic juice or oil from hot peppers could have an equal effect).
Even a small, handgun-sized squirt gun filled with one of these liquids could be easily concealed and drawn against an attacker. Just aim for the eyes and be careful not to get any on your own skin or face.
‘Under Sink’ Weapons
Also, consider aerosol and spray alternatives to traditional pepper spray. Most liquids that come in an aerosol can have an incredibly painful and dangerous effect against the eyes, nose, throat, and skin.
Think oven cleaner, wasp killer(which happens to be my favorite because they will have a 12-20 long spray stream) or other toxic chemicals with a potentially long-reaching spray. If a handheld fire extinguisher is lying about, even better.
Other less conspicuous items unlikely to arouse much attention are things like spray deodorant, perfume or cologne, which you may already carry on your person or in your bag. These can have the same effect as household cleaners and other spray chemicals.
In addition to human targets, these unconventional deterrents could also be used against attacking animals in a post-disaster world. Usually, a dog can take one sniff of a harmful chemical, sense danger, and flee.
While these items allow you to put some distance between you and your target, nothing is foolproof, and your attacker may still persist.
Though we’ve mentioned the importance of hand-to-hand fighting skills and training, most people would like the added security of wielding a makeshift weapon before the fists have to come out.
To that tune, items that can cause blunt force trauma are the next most viable go-to. One swing of a baseball bat, golf clubs, pipe wrenches (or pipes themselves) or a length of rebar can have a devastating effect against your opponent.
So too can something as simple as a Maglite flashlight, which serves dual purposes as a temporary blinding situation (the light itself) and a bludgeoning tool.
While these items may not be concealable, they are found and/or can be stored in most households and car trunks.
After all, you never know when you could find yourself in a physical altercation. It could be at the hands of a home invader or car burglar, just the same as it could be a stranger on the street.
For all intents and purposes, you probably want to stay away from edged weapons altogether. This includes decorative swords, axes, kitchen cutlery, and everyday pocket and survival knives.
Firstly, you never want to bring a knife to a gunfight (as the saying goes), or to any conflict wherein you may be outgunned, outnumbered or out-skilled.
Though these sharp objects can do serious damage to human flesh, using them effectively takes serious practice and skill. Knife fighting is an invaluable skill to possess, but without it, you are essentially involving yourself in one of the most dangerous forms of combat.
Another commonly overlooked item is the walking stick. A shoulder-height stick made of a hard and properly dried wood can be a formidable weapon for self-defense and can be carried about the town without arousing suspicion.
However, a pool cue, tree branch, fire poker or other long and hard item can also do the trick. These will give you a degree of control over your attacker by keeping them at a distance and are ideal for hitting, swinging and jabbing at your target’s weak spots.
Ultimately, it’s an unchangeable notion that the majority of us will be involved in a violent altercation at some point in our lives. This is especially true after a crisis situation.
You may not always be able to determine your fate, but you can always change the way you prepare. Weapons, however obscure and improvised, are mere extensions of your body and can serve to enhance your self-defense skills, especially with proper training.
Always be equally vigilant and creative. Study the everyday objects that surround you and think of how they could serve you in the event of an
What’s The Self-Defence Law In Your State?
The following states have ‘Stand Your Ground‘ laws:
- New Hampshire
- North Carolina
- South Carolina
- South Dakota
- West Virginia
States such as California does not have a specific stand your ground law in place but has a “castle doctrine”.
Other states have what’s called “duty to retreat” laws in place:
- New Jersey
- New York
- North Dakota
- Rhode Island
You may learn more about those things right here.
Consider how to respond to any situation. Learn how to do so. Know your limitations by law and by your own personal situation.
Do these things and you will be fine.